Here’s to the friendships that make you laugh so hard you think you might perish.
To the friends that listen. Like properly listen.
To the ones that never fail to check in.
Those that don’t require maintenance.
The polar opposites, seriously honest & brutally testing.
Here’s to the friendships that turn to love then to a heartbreak so painful you don’t think you’ll ever be the same again. And you’re right. You won’t. You’ll become a shinier version of yourself once you realise the energy you spent wallowing in resentment could’ve been spent floating in acceptance.
Because everything is happening as it should be.
Tell your friends how you feel about them.
That you love them more than life itself.
Talk to the hottie at Salt Mill who serves you your Soy Latte most mornings.
She’s probably crushing on you right back.
Stop holding yourself back.
Life is one big ball of uncertainty.
Book the bloody trip.
Sell it all.
Pack your shit up and leave.
Or stay. But make sure you’re living in line with your deepest desires.
Take risks.
Be calculated.
Work hard.
Don’t work hard.
Build yourself up.
Read books. And plenty of them.
Stay curious.
Have hobbies.
And be consistent. Consistency is everything.
Make scones on a Tuesday morning. Just because you felt like it.
Take yourself on a red hot date.
Girls. Ask him on a date.
And stop playing stupid games.
You’ll win stupid prizes.
The world needs that little slice of you that you know you’re withholding.
Stop giving people a watered down version of yourself.
The more you’re practicing being 100% yourself, the more magic you’re set to attract.
And that’s when everything will fall into line.
It’s all energy babaayyy.
And for fuck sake. Stop being so hard on yourself.